Born alone, live alone, die alone

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 I am already 40 this year (2025), but I don't have the urge to get married soon. I feel it's a burden to serve the husband. Looking my parents' marriage and my first brother's failed marriage, makes me not want to get married. The wife and husband will get angry to each other and in the end hurt each other. My mother frequently felt unsatisfied with my father. My ex-sister in law cheated. For the current me, marriage will just add a burden to my life. People said you should get married so you won't be alone for the rest of your life. However, even though I'm not married, I still have Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala. A human is born alone, ending up living alone, and die alone.