No Boundaries

 I am already 40 this year (2025), but I don't have the urge to get married soon. I feel it's a burden to serve the husband. Looking my parents' marriage and my first brother's failed marriage, makes me not want to get married. The wife and husband will get angry to each other and in the end hurt each other. My mother frequently felt unsatisfied with my father. My ex-sister in law cheated. For the current me, marriage will just add a burden to my life. People said you should get married so you won't be alone for the rest of your life. However, even though I'm not married, I still have Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala. A human is born alone, ending up living alone, and die alone. 

 My sis in law got mad at me when my WA status was against her IG story about an introvert person. At first, Idk that she unfollowed me, but I got notification that she followed me and the IG suggested me to follow her. No, I don't want to follow her anymore. 😂🤣 Her contents are not educating. 

Hi, this is my intro post! Let me introduce myself ...
First, just call me rabu if you find it difficult to call me with my username lovely_lace (rabu = love in Japanese language). It's not my real name though ^^ I just don't feel comfortable if people in cyber world call me with my real name :P
I'm interested in Japanese culture, especially with JE boys, but I will not only talk about them here in my journal since this journal created to post my randomness because I also like K-Pop, American music and tv series and also movies, etc.
I once have created an account in livejournal, but then I made a mistake for adding my RL friend as my LJ friend. Thus it made me stressed out since she always post about her activities in our university. For me, internet is one of my way to have fun without thinking about my RL especially about my univ life. And what made me annoyed and couldn't stand it again was when she send me a message and told about my univ news ;_; enough is enough! Even though I've ended up defriending her, but I'm still in her f-list. Thus, I still feel uncomfortable posting for public. Therefore, I have to post for my f-lists only. It's not what I wanted in first place when I created that account "to share everything for public".
That's why I created this dreamwith journal so I can talk freely about everything even though it's very random ^^
You can add me as your friend, be a lurker here, as long as you're not my RL friend.

Let's have fun together here everyone ~~~

In today's episode of At Home with Venetia in Kyoto, Mrs. Venetia made watercress soup. It looked delicious. Furthermore, all ingredients were fresh and easy to find, even in Indonesia. However, I need to change two ingredients so as to adjust to the condition here, in my hometown I mean. Watercress is uncommon here, so I may change it with spinach. I will also use fresh coconut milk as the fresh-cream substitute, and olive oil to substitute the canola oil. Judging from the ingredients used in this recipe, it can still be considered as real food right?

I write the recipe here so that I won't forget the measure of all ingredients.

Watercress Soup:
2 large potatoes
1 apple
150 grams watercress
800 ml chicken stock
1 table spoon canola oil
2-3 table spoon butter (I forget the measure of this)
70 ml fresh cream
Salt and pepper (to taste)

How to make:
1. Fried the sliced potatoes in canola oil and melted butter.
2. After the potatoes become tender, pour in the chicken stock.
3. Put in the apple that has been sliced and peeled.
4. Put in the watercress, cook until boiled.
5. Pour in the soup to the blender. Blend it well.
6. Put the blended soup into the pan once more. Add the fresh cream, salt and pepper.
7. Serve it warm or cool, to your own choice.

I'm a person who rarely idolize one idol for a long time, that's why it's surprising that I like Ueda Tatsuya from JE or Ryeowook from SuJu for this long. This two has similar personality, both of them are really quite and don't talk a lot. This night, I just knew both of them also have the same skill. Both of them are talented in playing piano & composing the songs.



I never thought I would like these two idols whom have made me often headdesk-ing myself because of their stingy action on talking.

Marhaban ya Ramadhan ~ The holy month comes again and I'm so grateful I live another year to welcome this blessed month again this year.

Because I don't know what to write now, so I will do meme taken from snowaltz. I got this meme because I was stalking her sssstttt ~

( Q & A )

I just searched again whether there will be subtitles for Junior Masterchef Australia and found this :
http://www.sub-talk.net/topic/1274-junior-masterchef-australia/
I laughed when I read this part :

"For Australian and New Zeeland TV shows, we don't have access to transcript, except when someone will rip subs from a DVD release or will made a subtitle for that shows by listening with the headset on his/hers ears."

The bold part, that IS so ME!!! When I subbed something, I have to use headset on my ears even when I sub Japanese shows. That's the part I really hate in subbing. I really hate using headset. Why? You might find it weird, but I'm afraid of the radiation caused by that action. That's why I only limit myself to do subbing only once a week or once in two weeks. Not just because I hate using headset but also I often have back pain now. Besides, I'm just doing re-subbing, which no one cares about LOL

Wanting to be perfectionist is not always good eh ~

This morning when I went around reading in arama, I knew about the cute characters called mameshiba. One of the video that caught my eyes is this one :



Indonesian word "belajar", if it's pronounced in Japanese it will be sounded like "braissere" which means "bra" in French. My reaction went from ?_? -> O_O -> :DDDDDD -> =_="
And ... yup! This is gonna be my last subbing project before I start my hiatus in the end of this month ^^ *due to fasting month and also Idul Fitri ~ I want to concentrate in it and also spend my time with my family esp. with my 3 beautiful nieces when I go to my hometown*

credit to : NEIRO-KT6
On the beginning, both of them talked about the tennis table challenge they did on Music Japan with Perfume :) Looks like KAT-TUN really enjoyed this ^^